Just let it go.

I have come across many people in my life that have had this strange mentality to always hold a grudge. Something may have happened to them during their High School years, the situation happened, then years passed... yet they still hold onto it all like it was yesterday, when everyone else has completely forgotten about it and moved on...or they at least try to forget about it but the person who still (for asinine reasons) refuses to let things go and bring it up all the time, even at random moments.

I think people like that thrive on the negatives of any given situation. I honestly feel that people like that love to be in terrible moods, and when the people around them are perfectly fine...they'll go out of their way to try and make you feel the same...then they feel better because Misery loves company. I've known quite a number of people who do this to the point where it's pretty damn obvious that their goal in life is to make every one around them feel like total shit, regardless as to what it may be, and they practically thrive on confrontation and arguments.

It's called moving on. The past is the past, live in the present. If you hold onto too many things that have happened to you 5 or more years ago, you'll notice that you've missed out on a lot of things happening NOW in your life, simply because you choose to live a life of pessimism, self induced heartache, etc.

Then there are those in the world who have no problem whatsoever with being a cold hearted prick towards everyone in the world simply because of the way they see the world. They hate everyone whose not white or straight. That infuriates me. Everyone is an individual with different traits, thoughts, emotions, feelings, interests, etc...but apparently to some people? That doesn't mean jack shit. I just don't understand it.

I know many people who live their lives day in and day out with nothing but negativity on the brain, pessimism out their ass, and living a life thinking that nothing positive will ever happen. Hell, I even once thought that way. But you know what? It'll always be that way until you yourself do something about it. Don't expect things to change...MAKE THEM CHANGE. You want to do something with your life? Get the hell out of there and make it happen. You want to live where and do what? It's up to you to work your ass off to get to that point.

Yes, nothing happens overnight. Everything takes time. EVERYTHING. But it's only up to you to come face to face with yourself and realize that where you're at now...isn't who you want to be or where you currently live. It's up to you and only you to live the life you want to live someday, It's going to be an arduous process, but if you're willing to stick it out, thick and thin, all of the hard work will pay off someday...and you'll definitely feel better about yourself.

But...you could also love being an arrogant, egotistical, maniacal little prick who enjoys sitting on their ass all day making nothing of themselves. But hey, if that's how you enjoy your time...be my guest. Just don't try and drag me down with you.

You're entitled to what interests you, what you like, listen to, read, etc. But, as the point of this blog site is....IT'S MY OPINION.